Love Thyself

The term Love Thyself or love yourself is a highly misused term. It does not mean to act selfishly and only bother about yourself. It doesn't mean to hate others or not bother about them. It also does not mean that you have to pamper yourself to death or become…

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So Confused

Why is man so confused while making decisions in life? Why does he lose focus about things that really matter the most? Instead of attacking the main subject, why does he behave so irrationally? A man has a very bad childhood, where he is never accepted at all by his…

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Changes And Disruptions

Sudden changes and disruptions creates chaos in life. Gradual and systematic alteration in any system takes years to change the fabric of that system. Sometimes man has to do a drastic and disruptive action to move far ahead exponentially. In India, we have the political system which doesn't allow big…

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Making Judgements

Man is habituated for making judgements on others. He loves jumping to conclusions even though he has absolutely no idea of the truth about the other person. We love to arrive at our biased conclusions even before we have gathered enough facts about another human being. I am reminded of…

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I Am Hurt

I am hurt at what he had to say about me! After so many years also, he doesn't think that I am good enough. Why is it always, that I have to be at the receiving end? I have done so much for him and yet he says that I…

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Everybody Wants Somebody

Everybody wants somebody to talk to. No one wants to be left out. Companions and friends are there throughout our lives to offer the advice and a shoulder to cry on. Man lives in the company of other like minded beings. Some prefer the company of animals to humans. Some…

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Truth Is One Sided

The worldly truth is always one sided. You may wonder how can that be? But let me show you how truth can be one sided. Let us take couple of examples here. First the perennial issues about a mother-in-law and their daughters-in-law fights! You have seen it in your life,…

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Regret Many Things

We regret many things in our life. We always wonder why aren't we able to do those wonderful things that we used to do in our childhood or youth. On one hand we are rueful of the past and regret not being able to do many things then due to…

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Do You Copy Your Guru?

Do you copy your Guru or Mentor? When you copy your mentor or your Guru, do you really believe that you have reached their position? They say that imitation is best form of flattery! But in real life is that true and can you do it? Your mentor has very…

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The Deed Is Done

What to do when the deed is done? Is there any way by means of which I can be redeemed? These are the questions that I got from some people some time back so I am writing the answers here. You know what you are doing is not right and…

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What Went Wrong?

What went wrong? So where did I go wrong? What just happened? This wasn't expected! Everything was going on so perfectly and how did that happen? These are certain questions that everyone asks themselves when things do not go as per their plan. Be it an election, relationship, job, life…

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Run Away Somewhere

I want to run away somewhere. I want to retire now. I have worked all my life and I need to take the back seat and put my legs up. We come across these statements and it wouldn't have mattered, had they been uttered by some person in early or…

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